Getting a new diagnosis can feel overwhelming, and it’s natural to want to focus only on today. But thinking about what matters most to you and talking with your family, friends, or care team can be helpful.
MS can be unpredictable, and planning can make it easier to manage changes if they happen. There are several points in life and your MS journey when it can be helpful to think about planning ahead:
- At diagnosis – It can be useful to start considering your priorities and wishes early.
- Later in the disease course – As your needs change, you may want to update your plans.
- When there are major changes – This includes changes in symptoms, starting new medications, or moving into accessible housing or long-term care.
- Changes in family or support situation – For example, if a caregiver becomes unavailable or your support network changes.
- Changes in employment – Starting, stopping, or reducing work can affect your care and planning needs.
Taking time to reflect at these different times along your journey helps ensure your care and support fit with what matters most to you.
Home and Community Care
Home and community care, also called “home care”, and “continuing care” are services offered by provincial and territorial governments that help you stay at home for as long as possible.
Non-Medical Community Support
There are many community groups that can help you stay at home safely and comfortably. While these services don’t provide medical care, they can make daily life easier. They may help with cleaning, household tasks, yard work or snow shoveling, grocery shopping or delivery, rides to appointments, friendly visits or phone calls, and meal delivery programs like Meals on Wheels.
These services are usually available through local organizations, charities, or volunteer programs. Access to them varies depending on where you live, and some programs may have waiting lists or limited availability. Costs are also different, some services are free or low-cost, while others may charge fees. A home care coordinator or MS Navigator can help you find out what’s available in your community and guide you through the process.
When Care Needs Increase
For someone living with MS, needs can change over time. Across Canada, various housing and care options are available when a person's needs change and they require a higher level of support that can’t be provided at home.
These services are organized differently across provinces and territories, and the names used for them may vary.
You might start thinking about your housing and care options if you:
- Find that your care needs are more than what home care services or a caregiver can provide
- Need help with everyday tasks like eating, bathing, or dressing
- Require on-site support to stay safe and well
- Can’t return home after a hospital stay
- Need a range of health and personal care services
Depending on where you live, you may hear terms like supportive housing, assisted living, supportive living, personal care homes, continuing care homes, or long-term care homes. These options provide different levels of care and support based on a person's needs.
How to find care and housing options
If you are starting to explore care or housing options, a good first step is to contact your local home and community care program. They can help explain what supports are available where you live.
A care coordinator (case manager or placement coordinator) can talk with you about your needs and help you figure out what type of care might be a good fit. They can also guide you through the next steps, including how to apply, what services may be covered, and if there are waitlists.
Because services and names vary across Canada, this support can help you understand your options and make decisions that fit your situation and preferences.
Palliative Care
Palliative care supports people with MS at any stage of their life while living with the disease. A common misunderstanding is that it’s only for end-of-life care, but it focuses on helping you stay well, independent, and supported, no matter where you may be along your journey with MS.
Palliative care looks at the whole person - body, mind, daily life, and relationships - to provide support in all areas that matter most to you and your loved ones. The goal of palliative care is to relieve suffering and optimize quality of life.
Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID)
Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID) is a legal option in Canada for people who meet the criteria and choose to end their life with the support of a doctor or nurse practitioner.
Other options at the end of life
Palliative Sedation Therapy and Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking
Palliative sedation therapy (PST) is used for people close to death who are in a lot of pain and distress. It involves using medicine to keep a person in a deep sleep, so they are comfortable until they die naturally. PST is different from MAID because the goal is to manage pain, not to cause or speed up death.
Voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED), is when a person chooses to stop eating and drinking to allow death to happen sooner. While doing this, a person can still receive medical care to keep them comfortable and reduce pain. Like PST, VSED is a separate choice from MAID.
Understanding MAID and the other care options available can help you make the choice that feels right for you and your situation. Palliative care assessments and available services, like those mentioned above, are different between provinces and even between communities within the same province.
For more information about Palliative Care please visit Palliative Care on the Government of Canada website.