Balancing School, Sports, and Caregiving

My mom was diagnosed with MS when I was 5, and it’s had an impact on our daily life and family dynamic. Living in a single-parent household with limited family support, we’ve learned to prioritize responsibilities and work together to get things done. We don’t let MS affect us negatively because we have a positive outlook, we’re surrounded by good people, and always find time to have fun. 

I’m my mom’s main caregiver so I take on most of the chores, like grocery shopping, cooking, laundry, vacuuming, dishes, and taking out the garbage. When my mom isn’t feeling well or is tired, I take care of my brother so she can rest.  

Balancing caregiving with schoolwork and extracurricular activities isn’t easy, but I manage with the support of my mom and my school. My teachers are very understanding and provide extensions when needed, and my mom is supportive of my activities. Maintaining a positive attitude helps keep me motivated. My mom’s strength has inspired me and taught me to fight for my goals, despite any barriers. 

It’s important for me to raise awareness and funds to support my mom and others living with MS. I organized the "HUSKIES TACKLE MS” flag football tournament, for high schools in Winnipeg, with all proceeds going to MS Canada. Inspired by a previous football game dedicated to raising money for MS, I wanted to bring it back and spread awareness through my sport. The tournament was a success, with participants eager to return next year. My ultimate goal is to inspire students from other provinces to start their own “TACKLE MS” flag football tournaments. 

In addition to the football tournament, I’ve organized bake sales, pizza sales, and a wing night fundraiser at a local restaurant. These events have brought the school and community together, raising money and spreading awareness for MS. My school’s student council, teachers, friends, and family have all been supportive, helping with planning and volunteering at the events. I feel very grateful to be supported by so many people who love us. 

For anyone with a parent or loved one living with a chronic disease, be patient and understand they’re doing their best. Maintain a positive mindset and try to surround yourself with uplifting people and activities.  

My experience has shown me the strength of community and the importance of supporting people living with MS. A cure for MS would mean a lot to me and my family. It would allow my mom to participate in more activities and live a fuller life. I hope to make a difference as I help work towards a world free of MS, where dreams can come true.